Yeah I'm back and wondering "What Do Women Really Want?" And yes this was inspired by the show, "What Chilli Wants." On the show, R&B/Pop star Chilli tries to find a man with her personal matchmaker Tionna Smalls. Chilli has a long, detailed list of what she wants and doesn't want in a man. Now I understand that all women and men should have a few standards. You shouldn't settle for a "Roody Poot," when you deserve Prince Charming. But at the same time a perfect man isn't realistic. I don't believe anyone's man is exactly what they asked for. That's where the "80 -20 Rule" comes in effect. The "80-20 Rule," means you will get 80% of what you want out of your mate and will receive 20% of what you dislike or have to compromise with. But the tricky thing is, if you let go of your 80%, you may receive 20% of what you want from the next mate.
When I first heard the theory on Tyler Perry's, "Why Did I Get Married? Why Did I Get Married Too?" I thought it made so much sense. I bet everybody in a relationship has compromised a few specifics on their checklist. He may be smart and fine but not as wealthy as you want him to be. He's romantic, respectful with a beautiful smile but not very tall.
The list can go on and on but I think you get the picture. Don't take this the wrong way! I'm not telling you to finally go out with your annoying co-worker with bad B.O. I'm just saying don't miss out on a good thing. You might be too busy pointing out his flaws to see his fame.
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